This may sound a bit negative, but I love my mother dearly, and she’s very difficult to shop for. She has no hobbies, no friends, no talents or passions, has all the skin care/lotion she could ever need, dislikes jewelry, doesn’t drink or smoke, rarely goes out, doesn’t enjoy cooking, and keeps her house nearly decoration-free. Most of her days consist of watching TV, taking naps, and spending time with family now that she’s retired.
I usually settle for a gift card, lunch, or something simple, but this year is special—it’s her 60th birthday—and I want to get her something meaningful. Any tips from people who have experience shopping for someone difficult or who identify as hard to shop for themselves would be greatly appreciated. My budget is a maximum of $200, though I suspect she wouldn’t want me to spend even half that. Thank you!
I bought my hard-to-shop-for mother a bunch of new linens for Christmas (sheets, towels, etc.). They are used every day, and it added a touch of luxury to her routine. She apparently loved it, and many people don’t replace their old items over time.
My dad has a similar routine to your mom. I tried experience gifts, but they never brought him joy. Recently, we got him TV headphones that connect to non-smart TVs, allowing him to watch without disturbing others. Maybe your mom would appreciate a pair too!
If she has a favorite show, consider a cameo from one of the actors. A digital frame preloaded with family photos might also work—they’re not cluttered and can be quite meaningful. A cozy cashmere throw blanket could keep her warm while she watches TV.
A cozy throw blanket, heated blanket, or plush slippers would be perfect for her TV time. You could also create a memory book filled with family photos and notes—it would be very special.
I like to look around my mom’s house for items that need an upgrade, like a dull potato peeler or missing kitchen scissors. People tend to forget they need replacements because they get used to their old stuff.
What about planning a mini spa day followed by a family gathering at home? Treat her and yourself to blowouts, a facial massage, and a mani/pedi, then have lunch and cake with the family. You could order her favorite takeout for dinner and finish the day with a movie.
I understand how tough it can be since some people just don’t want things. Since it’s her 60th, here are some ideas: consider a custom photo album or framed collage of old pictures for a nostalgic touch without clutter. A nice weighted blanket or soft loungewear could make her TV time cozier. You could also book a family photo session for some beautiful memories or make a custom video montage of family and friends sharing memories, which she will treasure. These thoughtful gifts will mean more than something fancy. Check christmas.chat for more ideas. You can do this!
How about a cozy blanket paired with a custom photo book filled with family pictures and warm memories? It’s perfect for her TV time and meaningful without being overwhelming!
Consider making her a physical photo album or scrapbook featuring family pictures over the years. Pair it with some cozy slippers or something equally thoughtful.